Hello Glam Dolls,
Growing up I was over weight. I had no
self confidence. I never stood up for myself, and because of that I
got into some not so good relationships. Ones that did more damage on
how I seen myself. I was always waiting around for that perfect
person to come along and make me feel better about myself. If you are
doing this right now, PLEASE STOP! It will never happen.
Confidence is something you have to
gain for yourself. Never expect someone to give it to you, because
remember, if they give it to you then that means they can easily take
it away. About six years ago I decided to start taking better care of
myself and really re-evaluate my life. I lost around 70 pounds these
past few years and took myself out of a really bad relationship. Once
I realized I was worth more than how people were treating me I
started to gain a backbone. Trust me, if I can get one anyone can.
You have to find out what makes you
happy and make it happen for yourself. If it's something simple like
taking off a few pounds and wearing makeup, do it. If it's what you
want. You have to know your worth it, and you have to believe you are
one of a kind. There is not one single person on this earth that is
exactly like you.
I feel really bad for people who rely
on their happiness and their confidence on the person they are in a
relationship with. I have done this may times in the past and it has
lead to nothing good. Look in your mirror and start to like what you
see. Never compare how you look to someone else. Never wish you had
someones body, and never feel envious of other people in any way. Be
happy for them, and work towards your goals!Focus on you and get what
you want.
I choose to live my life by not caring
what other people think. A lot of people mistake this for being cold.
I am a very compassionate person, I just have no room for negativity.
You have no idea how much negativity weighs down on your self
confidence.
I have always been a curvy girl. For
the longest time I was always insecure about this. I can honestly
tell you that I love my body. I feel blessed to have what I have, and
I think you all should feel the same way. No one else out there looks
the same as you. That alone is a beautiful thing.
I get upset when I see other girls
putting down other females for wearing makeup. I hear a lot of the
time “if you're so confident, then why do you wear makeup.” I do
not get my confidence from wearing makeup. I feel perfectly
comfortable in my own skin. I do not feel the need that I have to
wear it. I enjoy wearing it, and it makes me feel good about myself.
I wear makeup everyday. I love big hair and I wouldn't change that
about myself. Whatever makes you happy and feel good, do it. Doesn't
matter if other people understand or approve. This is all about you
and your journey to love yourself and appreciate what you have.
I love you guys so much. You have all
been so supportive toward me with trying to make my dream come true.
I am forever appreciative!!! Thank you all so much for reading, and I
will talk to you all in my next post!!!
xo
Remember, you do not have to explain to
anyone why something makes you happy, or why it makes you feel good.
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